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In addition to my handsome and amazing fiancé David, I kind of love Dave Barnes. He is a musician from Nashville, and his fan base has seen a lot of growth in the past few years. His lyrics are so poetic and beautiful. (David also loves some Dave. He’s learned quite a few of his songs and often serenades me on the guitar.) David and I have both gotten to see Dave Barnes perform live at separate times.

As of the moment, we are leaning towards his song “Amen” off his latest album.

I played this song for my mom a while ago and told her we were considering it for our first dance. She started crying when she heard the last line of the first stanza!

Here are the lyrics:

We will have love, we will have pain
There will be days and days and days that feel the same
We will have fear, we will have joy
There may be little girls and little boys

We will have friends, we will have peace
There will be nights of lights and music ’til you sleep
We will be strong, but we will still break
We’ll live through so much more than we can take

Amen, Amen
With the dawn, we all begin again
Amen, Amen
What is done and yet to come, Amen

We will have hope, we will have doubt
There will be memories we could never live without
We will have tears, but there will be grace
There will be prayers that we never thought we’d pray

Amen, Amen
With the dawn, we all begin again
Amen, Amen
What is done and yet to come, Amen

In the sun or the storms, the flood or the flames
When everything’s wrong, and I’m the one to blame
In heartache or hope
I swear I’ll say, I’ll say

Amen, Amen
With the dawn, we all begin again
Amen, Amen
What is done and yet to come, Amen


What do you think? Do you have any other first dance song suggestions? What was your first dance song?

–Leah

Hello everyone!

I know, I know. It’s like David and I dropped off the face of the blogosphere. It’s been a busy past 3 and a half months – I moved to Virginia and started my new job! It’s been great being in the same town as David. (Even though he’s back home in Michigan for the summer. Which is rather ironic, but no big deal for us. We are seasoned long-distancers!)

And, of course, the wedding planning has been set into motion. I’ve decided to blog our wedding planning process!

There is a lot to recap, but here’s an overview of what we have thus far:

  • A wedding date: July 16, 2011! That gives us 16 months to plan.
  • A wedding location: David’s parent’s woods. If you read the blog before I knew about its existence, you know David proposed to me in the woods in an abandoned cabin. His family owns a lot of land and taps maple trees for syrup. Anyways, we took one of the farm vehicles back into the woods, found a great spot, and next thing I knew David’s dad was back there with the back-ho clearing away all the dead trees and brush! I can’t wait to tell you more about our plans for our clearing in the woods.
  • A reception location: David’s parent’s front lawn. Which will require lots of rentals!
  • Engagement photographer in Virginia: EEEEK! :)  There will be a whole post on photographers.
  • Wedding photographer in Michigan: Huge sigh of relief. Again, more commentary to come about photographers.
  • Guest List Round 1: We’re looking between 300 – 350 at the moment. David’s family is HUGE. His dad’s side is the size of my entire list. Lots to tell about this process!
  • A wedding theme: Think vintage country… or something like that. It demands an explanation, we know.

Wow! After listing what we’ve done, I am feeling pretty good! We are trying our hardest not to let wedding planning be a stressful process, but rather something that is fun to be enjoyed.

We hope you’ll follow us in the journey of planning our big day. We’re absolutely interested in your feedback and suggestions!

–Leah

David and LeahHello all!

Girl here – Leah, to be more specific. It feels a little strange to be writing to people who know all of the secrets behind my engagement! Boy (David) says you want to hear my side of the story. Wow, where to begin!?

I’ll start off by saying March 12th was a hectic morning and afternoon. I had decided to accept a job offer. An hour later, I was presented with a counter offer from another company. There was much debate and several phone calls to family, mentors, and a boyfriend who was “in between classes and work.” My heart was racing, and I was pacing all around the house. It was a very difficult decision because they were both great opportunities. I ended up taking the second offer, which puts me in the same town as David. David called me even though he was at “work” to tell me how excited he was I took the job near him. He wasn’t able to talk for long, but I figured we’d talk later that night.

We were invited earlier in the week by David’s mom to see one of David’s four younger brothers perform in his high school musical. I didn’t find it strange she invited us; we had gone to several shows and thought it was cool we could attend opening night. I figured I’d see it again with David the second weekend of the show. After my mom got home from work, she, my younger sister, and I headed out to Vermontville for the show. We got there earlier than David’s family, but were able to chat a little once they arrived before the show began.

The show was fun, and I texted David after the show to let him know Joe did a great job. We had also been invited to go back to David’s house for brownies after the show, so we headed there next.

When we got to the house, I decided to leave my purse in the car. My mom asked if I wanted to bring in my camera. I declined and said it I didn’t need to. She told me it would be nice to get a picture of Joe and everyone, and I’d never know when I’d see the grandparents next.  “Whatever,” I thought, and took in my purse.

David’s grandparents had come to the show and were at the house as well. After we all got inside, David’s mom asked Benny, the youngest of David’s brothers, if he would take me out to the sugar shanty to get some fresh maple syrup for the brownies. (David’s family has a maple syrup business.) Benny was busy playing piano, but David’s mom said, “Benny, would you pleeeease take Leah out?” He got up and led the way out to the shanty.

The shanty is a new addition to the farm, and I figured they had finished out the inside of it. It was very muddy because of all the snowmelt and rain in Michigan, so Benny and I walked on the planks of wood out to the shanty. When we got near the door, I saw Joe on the gator. He patted the seat next to him for me to get on. “I guess they want me to come in from the back side to see what they’ve done,” I thought. Joe and I got stuck in the mud, and his dad had to come push us out. Instead of going around to the back of the shanty, he took me out it into one of the fields. It was wet and cold and rainy, and I wasn’t sure what to think. The thought of a proposal flashed briefly in my mind, but I dismissed it. David was in Virginia.

Ahead, a light was blinking in the dark. There was another piece of farm equipment sitting in the field. David’s second youngest brother, Sam, was sitting in it with the hood of his sweatshirt up.  Joe got out and had me get on his back to transfer me to Sam’s vehicle. The ride was very bumpy and loud. Sam didn’t say anything to me and I didn’t ask any questions. “If this is a proposal, it’s too bad Daniel couldn’t be here,” I thought. He was on vacation in the Carolinas.

Sam brought me through the muddy field to the edge of one of the woods. There was another light, and there was Daniel with a lantern. So if Daniel was home, then that meant that David –

I got out of the vehicle and Daniel told me to follow him and where to step so I wouldn’t get too muddy. He began to lead me into the woods.

“So, no spring break at the beach?” I asked him.

“Um, no. I had some homework to do,” he told me.

Decorations

As we walked further into the woods, I saw a cabin dimly lit by candles and lanterns.

“Go in there, and walk through slowly,” Daniel told me.

By this point, I was excited and was still trying to figure out how David had gotten to Michigan. I entered the cabin and saw all the work he had done. The cabin had two rooms. The first room was decorated with a picture I had painted of the two of us and given to David for one Christmas. There was also a Jones Soda bottle with our picture David had given me before we had started dating. There were wine glasses with votive candles all around.

Painting and Jones

Pictures of the two of us from the past three years were tacked above and around the doorway leading into the second room. There was also a table with two chairs, a white tablecloth, candles, chocolates, two glasses, and sparkling grape juice set up. As I entered into the second part of the house, David stepped out from the corner. I jumped into his arms to give him a hug.

The next part is kind of a blur and I don’t remember it all. I gave him a hug and he took my hands. I just wanted to look at him and talk to him. I was still so surprised he was home already. I kept holding his hands, but he was trying to get them loose. He reached his hand into his sweatshirt and pulled out a little gray box. Then he got down on one knee.

“You’re the best thing that’s ever happened to me. Leah Joy Faust, will you marry me?” is all I remember him saying.

And I said, “Yes!”

Table

We ate the dessert, drank some bubbly, and then called Sam to come pick us up on one of the farm vehicles. As we headed back to the house, we heard what we thought were fireworks going off and cheering. (They were bottle rockets!)

We got back to the house, and David said we should probably go through the front door. We knocked and opened the door, and a large group of our friends and family came out to greet us. I had no idea everyone was there! They had parked their cars at David’s aunt’s house next door and had been hiding in the basement the whole time. A ton of camera flashes went off and there were a lot of hugs and oohing and ahhing over the ring after that!

David pulled me over to the computer because he wanted to show me something. Someone yelled, “It’s not official till it’s facebook official!” So, we made it officially official. And then David brought up the blog.

It was just one surprise after another that night! David told me he had been blogging during the days before the proposal and showed that he had a lot of visits to the blog. I was so shocked! He posted that I said yes, and told me we could read the blog later. Let me tell you, I loved it! It was so special to be able to read what he had been doing and his thought process. It really emphasized how much he cared and loves me. I loved reading about all the planning that went into our special night.

The picture we left up

The rest of the evening was filled with dessert (David had brought home a fancy chocolate dessert from the gourmet restaurant where he works) and fun times with friends and family.

A few days later, we went back to the cabin to take pictures and clean up the decorations. We left one picture of us, the one that I had painted, on the doorframe.

We are so excited for this special time in our lives and are planning a July 2011 wedding!

God’s hand was so present throughout the whole day. From the job to the proposal, the timing could not have been more perfect!

 

Today is the day. The day that I will ask Girl to marry me. I just woke up from sleeping in. I was going to get up early, but I really needed the sleep. I’m about to go out and get the cabin ready. I have to do a little sweeping and a few other things. However, how Girl gets to the cabin is still up in the air.

Originally, I had thought that my mom could take Girl back to the woods to check the Maple Trees. However, it is quite muddy here and we have to use an ATV to get out to the cabin. The ATV has a cab, so girl wouldn’t get muddy, but that’ll throw an interesting factor into the mix. Last night, my mom had a great idea. Her idea was that my brothers could do a “Girl relay.” Going from youngest to oldest, my brothers would take her from one brother to the next, until she ended with me. I like this idea because it give my brothers a chance to be involved.

I’m sure there are a few more minor things that could change throughout the day. However, the only thing that matters by the end of the night, is that she knows that I love her and that I want to spend the rest of my life with her.

Tomorrow I propose to Girl. It doesn’t even seem real. This is something I’ve been anticipating for a long time. In under 24 hours, I could be engaged.

After a long trip, I got home today around 5 pm. It was good to see my family and tell my little bros the news. I think we’ve decided not to tell the 7 year old bro until after the proposal, in case of a slip up. I’m pretty excited and have been busy getting things around.

Tonight, me and my 14 year old brother went out to the cabin and started cleaning it up. It is quite rustic, to say the least, and I have my work cut out for me tomorrow. I’m not sure if I will do the fireplace. We tried the one already in the cabin and it smoked us out. I think I’m just gonna stick with candles and a lantern.

For the dessert, I have decided it would be best to eat that back at the house since there is no electricity in the cabin. Instead I have readied some chocolates to have on a little plate for girl and I to share. I also have some bubbly juice for us to drink.

Tonight I was able to have dinner and go shopping with my mom. It was good to get to talk with her and brainstorm about logistics. I had  a lot of fun.

Tomorrow I have to finish cleaning the cabin, bring out a table and chairs, set up the candles, set up the pictures, organize logistics, and a whole lot more. I am exhausted and can’t wait to head to bed. I need the sleep, so I can be up late tomorrow night celebrating!

I just got done packing and am about to go pick up my brother. He’s going to spend the night and we’re leaving at about 4:30 or 5 tomorrow morning. I’m so excited and can’t wait to be home. I haven’t even told my other brothers that I’m coming home.

Tonight it was really hard to keep the secret. I’m afraid that I might slip up and mention being home in the next two days before I see her.  I had a couple of close calls tonight and had to come up with a couple quick fibs. I feel bad telling her little lies, but I know she’ll understand when I propose.

I have some particular strategies that I’m putting in place to make girl believe I’m still at school. I will write about them later but am still super nervous girl will find me out. Really, being nervous about her finding out is the only nervous I’m experiencing right now, so I guess that’s a good thing. People are still asking me if I’m nervous about asking her and I’m really not that nervous. I imagine I’ll probably be shaking and holding back tears when I ask her, but I’ll cross that bridge when I get to it.

Tomorrow is going to be a long day in the car. A long day to not slip up and hint that I’ll be home. I’m so excited and jittery. God has truly blessed me with a beautiful wonderful girl. I don’t deserve her and I want this moment to be the best moment of her life so far.

It’s 11:11 and I wished for you… I have wished for you for a long time.

Love you girl…

I know I missed the countdown with 4 days left but it has been such a busy week with school. I think I’m finally nearing the end of the madness for this week. Tomorrow I will be preparing for the trip home.

Today Girl asked me if I had any crazy plans for the weekend. How do I answer that? I told her no, but I still think this weekend is going to be crazy. The next time I see girl in person will be when I pop the question… phew!

Girl and I haven’t been able to talk to each other a whole lot the past couple of days. I’ve been busy with school and work. Usually when I get off work, Girl is starting to get tired and wanting to go to bed. This is fine, but I feel bad because I don’t want work to get in the way of us communicating. On the other hand, it’s probably good that we’re not communicating as much the past couple days because I would probably end up spoiling her surprise. :) I’m so nervous that I’ve already spoiled it. However, the fact is, I won’t know whether she knew ahead of time until we’re engaged. All I can do is hope and pray for the best.

I still need to call people and plan out when they need to come… I better get on that. I tried to get in contact with my mom all day, but she was working. I want to find out when the musical is over so that I can tell everyone when to be there. I want people to be there about an hour before the play ends so that we have time to hide their vehicles and their bodies. :)

I called my Grandparents tonight and told them about my plans. They were very happy. They told me how much they love girl and how they are sure she’ll say yes. I hope they’re right! :)

I sent a text message to a good friend of mine the other day and asked him to call me when he got a chance. He called this morning and I told him the news. This friend and his wife have been great mentors and role models since I was in Junior High. One of the hardest things about being hours from home is not being able to see these friends. This guy has done a lot for me and taught me a lot. He is part of why I am who I am today. His wife has also given me valuable advice in my career field. I miss hanging out with these friends often.

Today was kind of crazy at one point…

Today I went to Wal-Mart to print off some pictures. I had saved a bunch of pictures of Girl and I on an SD card. I parked and made my way into the store. When I arrived at the photo kiosk, I couldn’t find the SD card. I started freaking out. It wasn’t in my pockets and I knew I had it when I left my car. So I retraced my steps and couldn’t find the card anywhere. After checking my car thoroughly, I headed back towards the store. Then I saw my SD card sitting on the pavement, in perfect condition.

After walking towards the store and realizing I had forgot my wallet, I went back to my car. Then I returned to the Kiosk, only to find that the one I printed at was 10 cents more expensive than the other one. So I had the clerk cancel my order and reordered the pictures at the cheaper price. While I was doing so, the clerk handed me my keys which I had forgotten at the other kiosk.

With all this said, I hope I am a lot less scatterbrained while going through with the rest of my plans. There is a lot to remember and I want to make sure I remember it all.

I just got done saving a bunch of pictures of Girl and I from Facebook. It was a lot of fun to go back in time and see all the fun times we’ve had that I had almost forgotten about. I think I’m going to go tomorrow and print off the pictures. I need to get candles too. Sorry, I’ll try not to make a shopping list on my blog.

I got to talk to girl for a few minutes tonight. She told me about her visiting her dad. She also talked about how confident he was that she was going to move near me. He also talked about how he had gotten a real good deal on some cruise tickets. I asked her if he could hook us up. Then added a few words to avoid saying, “for our honeymoon.” I keep having to hold my tongue.

I’m sure I have mentioned this before, but girl does not know that I am going to be home on Thursday. She’s not expecting me til Sunday. I had originally told her that I would have to work this weekend. Tonight, we were talking about me coming home and getting work off. I kept having to keep myself from accidentally telling her I’d be home Thursday.

Tomorrow I am calling my grandparents. I’m real excited to tell them about my proposal. I’m also going to call or Facebook everyone who is going to be at my house that night to give them directions and a time to be there. I still haven’t decided when to tell the rest of my brothers. I’m not too worried about the 17 year old and the 14 year old telling anything or leaking the secret. However, I’m afraid that my 7 year old brother will hear everyone talking and spill the beans. I guess I’ll probably talk to Mom tomorrow and talk out some options.

My mom just invited Girl to the show next Friday. Girl accepted, and I’m happy. They are going to go to our house after the show for dessert. Everything’s starting to come together, but there’s still a lot of work to be done. I still have to print off the pictures, call a couple more friends, tell my grandparents, and make the 12 hour drive home.

In one of my previous posts, I said that the day’s were going by slow. Now it’s just the opposite. I am now finding that I have so much to do, that I cannot fit everything I need to in my days. I don’t think it will be long before I let one of my other brothers know what’s going on. I think I may have them get a head start on cleaning the cabin.

Based on what I’m planning on now, I will get home Thursday around 4:30-5pm. Then I will head on out to the cabin and give it a good clean and see what I need to do Friday. Friday morning, I will head back out to the cabin and make sure the fireplace is in working condition, followed by a little bit more cleaning. At some point, I will bring the lanterns and candles out. I’ll also need a table and two chairs.Then I’ll have to make the dessert (I still don’t know what I’m making), and make sure it stays hot or cold or whatever it needs to be.

Now, that doesn’t sound like too much work. However, the cabin that I’m working with is a bit dirty. It’s been used as a deer blind for a while and we got it from a church camp or something. There’s no knowing what kind of a cleaning job I’m getting myself into, but I guess that’s part of the adventure. I know that plans change and things don’t always go how we envision them. But that’s what makes life so exciting, right? :)

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